Elise and Joshua are the newest couple on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. Elise recently got upset about Joshua’s living situation. As dramatic as she was, is Elise really the problem here? Or has Joshua been feeding her lie after lie and calling her irrational when she gets upset?

Elise moved to Australia to be with her new beau, Joshua. Ever since her arrival, fans noticed Joshua’s demeanor was way off. Not that fans like Elise much, but as the season progressed, Elise’s reactions were not that invalid. Is she really just dramatic, or is Joshua gaslighting Elise since she came to visit him? Keep reading for the full scoop.

90 Day Fiance: Fans Call Out Elise For Dramatic Reactions

Recently, on 90 Day Fiance, Elise found out that Joshua lives with a female friend. Things get worse when she learns that the friend sometimes helps pay his rent. Elise is shocked and upset. She cannot believe her boyfriend is living with another woman. Even though Nat says Joshua is like a brother, Elise doesn’t buy it. Later, she wakes up and sees that Joshua is gone. Her mind jumps to the worst possible situation right away – what if he went to Nat?

Now, fans are calling her out for crying over a minor argument. Many think she is not as chill as she claims to be. She says she just wants to have fun, but her actions say otherwise. Many feel she is too insecure and high-maintenance. Some believe she is making small issues look big just for good reality TV drama. It looks like she is trying hard to stay relevant on the show. Fans are starting to feel tired of the constant overreactions.

90 Day Fiance: Fans Think Joshua Is Gaslighting Elise, Say He’s Not A Saint!

A recent Reddit thread calls out Joshua for gaslighting Elise. The 90 Day Fiance star has created quite a buzz with his recent revelations on the show. Some thought he was a cocaine user, others claimed he might be in love with Chris, and then he dropped the biggest bomb – living together with a female friend, Nat. This is what Elise did not let slide, and she went off the rails at a bar. But is Elise really the only problematic person here? Let’s look at Joshua, too.

The Reddit OP states how Joshua brings Chris to meet Elise for the first time. The constant changes in the story are suspicious, as if Joshua is hiding something. Also, he lied about living with his parents when in reality he is living with a female friend. He said it’s not a big deal in Australia, which is why Elise reacted negatively. So if it isn’t a big deal, why lie to Elise in the first place?

More sketchy behaviour is about his job. He works in yacht sales, but he doesn’t have enough money for a place of his own, and he’s also financially dependent on Nat. All this combined, when Elise finds out, of course, she reacts negatively. Granted, her scene at the pub wasn’t the reaction an adult should have, but Joshua kept lying to her and gaslighting her into thinking she was overreacting whenever he dropped new information on her.