90 Day: The Last Resort: The Real Reason Kalani Stayed With Asuelu After His 10-12 Affairs
Kalani Faagata never opened up about Asuelu Pulaa constantly cheating on her until she poured her heart out on 90 Day: The Last Resort.
90 Day: The Last Resort star Asuelu Pulaa has cheated multiple times on his wife Kalani Faagata, despite which she continued to stay together with him. When Kalani and Asuelu met, he was 23 years old, and she was 29. Kalani lost her virginity to Asuelu. He was the only man she ever loved until he repeatedly betrayed her trust despite the several chances she gave him to rectify his mistakes. Kalani and Asuelu came to the 90 Day Fiancé spin-off to save their marriage. Kalani had already used the hall pass that Asuelu gave her, and she began dating a man named Dallas Nuez.
Now that Kalani knows Asuelu is beyond the point of forgiveness, she could have chosen to reveal his dark side to 90 Day Fiancé viewers. Kalani and Asuelu had a session with Dr. Janie Lacey. Kalani’s sister Kolini joined the couple as they used therapy to resolve their issues. Kolini was the only person in the world whom Kalani went to for support whenever Asuelu cheated on her, and there had been “numerous” times he cheated. Kolini’s feelings towards Asuelu changed to those of resentment. Fans never came to know why Kolini disliked Asuelu so much, and it was because Asuelu had cheated on Kalani for the length of their relationship.
Asuelu Started “Online Cheating” After Coming To America
“It was like girl after girl after girl,” said Kalani. Kalani may have thought her 90 Day Fiance would change when he came to America. However, within a year, Asuelu started “online cheating.” Asuelu didn’t physically cheat on her. Asuelu was reaching out to different women online. He used to buy their naked pictures. That continued until the time Asuelu went to Samoa and indulged in oral sex with an unknown woman. Perhaps his getting yeast infection on his tongue was the last straw for Kalani.
Kalani Claims “Almost All Men In Samoa” Think It’s Okay
“So collectively, he’s cheated like 10-12 times,” revealed Kalani. She said she felt disgusted with herself just hearing herself say that. Kalani had put Asuelu in a position to allow him to hurt her over and over again. Asuelu defended himself by claiming that growing up his parents didn’t teach him that what he did was wrong. Kalani said “almost all of the men in Samoa think it’s okay.” As per Kalani, married men were hitting on her and Kolini when they were in Samoa. Asuelu’s friends who were married were also hitting on her.
Kalani Kept Waiting For Asuelu To Change Until It Was Too Late
By the time Kalani found out Asuelu had cheated on her, she was already pregnant and bringing Asuelu to America. She felt like she needed to “suck it up and hide it.” Kalani wanted Asuelu to get along with her dad and with her family members, so she kept it hidden to protect him. Kalani assumed if Asuelu came to America and was around her dad, he would be a “good guy.” But Kalani’s plan of getting Asuelu out of the environment didn’t help him change.
Kalani held onto the belief that Asuelu would change up until his Samoa trip cheating and up until the 90 Day: The Last Resort star moved on to be with another man who cared. Kalani kept warning him that they’d end up divorced while Asuelu kept cheating. Because Kalani never left, Asuelu believed she would never leave him. Asuelu is making it look like he’s admitting to his mistakes, but he may have lost Kalani for good. Their marriage is beyond saving.