90 Day: The Last Resort- The Jovi Cheating Rumors Are A Sign That Yara Should Leave Him
Yara Zaya’s trying to repair her marriage with Jovi Dufren on 90 Day: The Last Resort, but recent cheating rumors may indicate that she’d be better off throwing in the towel. When it comes to her partner, she’s already put up with a lot, and even if these rumors prove to be untrue, his bad behavior with other women may be ingrained. Change is hard, and Jovi may not have what it takes to adapt. If he doesn’t change, she’s doomed to live her life with a man who has a wandering eye. While wandering eyes aren’t exactly uncommon among husbands, Jovi has done more than look.
When couples have children, marriages are worth fighting for, and that’s why Yara and Jovi are appearing on 90 Day: The Last Resort. Their daughter Mylah is adorable. However, troubled marriages often make kids unhappy. When it comes to a marriage with children, it’s so hard to know when to call it quits. Of course, there are cases when doing that’s for the best. If Jovi continues to frequent strip clubs and possibly more, what hope does this famous reality duo have? What isn’t in question is the fact that Yara deserves a man who respects her.
Jovi Doesn’t Seem To Learn From His Mistakes
When it comes to other women, Jovi’s a repeat offender, and the new cheating rumors seem to underscore the fact that he follows a pattern of behavior that may stay the same forever. Also, the fact that this type of gossip is circulating now, after the couple welcomed a child, is really concerning. Jovi’s a father now, so he knows that the stakes are very high. While rumors aren’t always true, it’s not exactly a stretch to picture a strip club “fan” going further than tucking dollar bills into lingerie.
In a recent teaser, Yara got heated because she believed that Jovi was in their bed with, “someone.” While a teaser might not show everything, it didn’t look good. It seemed like Jovi had betrayed his wife. Another clip showed Yara freaking out because Jovi had texted a woman. He referenced the night before, stating that he was just trying to, “have fun.” How many times does this kind of stuff have to happen? How many tears does Yara have to cry? Jovi keeps hurting her, and it’s just not right.
Some Men Shouldn’t Be Married
Is asking Jovi to embrace the white picket fence and 2.5 kids fantasy really realistic, when he clearly gets such a buzz from late-night antics? It’s like trying to force a square peg into a round hole. While he’s made some efforts to mature, the latest teaser drama doesn’t bode well. It seems like Jovi’s just the same as he’s always been. The truth is that he may not want to evolve, even though he loves his wife and child. Part of him clearly wants the kind of excitement that a stable home life rarely provides.
This couple is still young. They have time to change, but should Yara wait for Jovi to “age out” of his partying ways? That could take decades. In the meantime, she’ll have a young child to care for, a husband who’s into other women, and her work responsibilities. While some of that may make her happy, she’s got this issue of Jovi’s womanizing weighing her down. It’s always there in the background, wreaking havoc unseen, even when things are seemingly going well. It’s the problem they need to face, and there are no easy answers.
Would it be easier for her to let go of Jovi and see how it feels to go it alone? That might be challenging too, but at least she wouldn’t be crying all the time, and trying to control another person. Women can rarely control men for long, if said males don’t want to be controlled. A man might pretend to change, but that’s just another form of deception.
Yara Has Lied Too, But That Doesn’t Change Anything
Yara isn’t totally innocent, but she hasn’t inflamed Jovi’s jealousy by hanging around other men, and she definitely could if she wanted to. However, she did make a serious mistake by hiding the fact that she was using birth control from her husband. They were supposed to be trying for another baby. However, even subconsciously, the fact that Jovi’s so interested in other women may have been acting on her, and stopping her from growing their family. With two children, it might be even harder to leave him if she had to.
Yara’s Thought About Leaving Jovi
In her own way, she’s tried to flee before. When she longed for Europe, her homeland, was Jovi’s hurtful behavior literally pushing her away? In 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 2, Yara and Jovi flew to see her mother in Prague. While their getaway unfolded, Yara began having second thoughts about living in the USA. Part of her wanted to stay in Prague, but why? It’s more than homesickness or needing her mother. It’s Jovi and everything he’s done.
That kind of pain doesn’t just go away. She’ll sit and remember all the bad times, such as when Jovi preferred to get lap dances and drink, rather than being at home with her. When she was pregnant, she often felt alone. While they have their happy times too, they’re not on 90 Day: The Last Resort because their relationship is peaches and cream. They’re hurting as a duo, and while she’s been dishonest, there may be a good reason why.
Yara seems to love Jovi. Otherwise, she wouldn’t cry when he does this stuff. She has meltdowns, and they’re real. They’re not going to stop unless something major happens. A young mother who’s stunningly glam, and able to earn her own money, doesn’t need to live with this kind of stress. While she looks so perfect on the surface, what’s underneath? Someone who’s been put through the wringer. Her pain is real and Jovi’s not respecting that. Maybe he never will, even after all the New Age-inspired therapy that 90 Day: The Last Resort can provide.