90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way – Sarper Is Being Labeled As Misogynistic (Does He Deserve it?)
Sarper Güven is trying to establish himself as a social media influencer, but the content he’s sharing with 90 Day Fiancé fans is receiving criticism.
Sarper Güven from 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way has become controversial in a short time. The 43-year-old Turkish man debuted mid-season on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 5 and quickly became a villain because of his personality and past. Sarper met 41-year-old Shekinah Garner through a matchmaking website. While the pair had a great first date, they didn’t feel the same way about each other. While Shekinah adored Sarper’s bad boy persona and makeup, Sarper didn’t take the situation seriously. Instead, he slept with two women after that and even tried to cancel their second date.
Sarper didn’t immediately fall in love with Shekinah because of his dominant personality. He’s always around good-looking women and probably didn’t think she was special. In the latest episode of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, Shekinah’s family members and friends even pointed out how Sarper seems like a playboy. A big reason for Sarper’s bold personality is his career, as he’s a personal trainer and a fitness model. He gets a lot of attention from women and loves to share his opinions on social media.
Sarper Wants Women To Be Submissive
On a Reddit thread (via A_million_things), fans labeled Sarper as “toxic and misogynistic” for his controversial statements. Sarper has an Instagram page, The Retired Bad Boy, where he likes to give relationship advice as a former badboy. However, some of the things he has said aren’t resonating with fans. In one of his videos titled “how to win a Badboy’s heart,” Sarper tells women to be more submissive and feminine to attract a man. He says, “try to be noble on street, housemaid in house, chef in kitchen, and the b**** on bed.” It seems he wants women to appease men and doesn’t expect anything in return, which is misogynistic.
Sarper Calls Himself A Bad Boy
Sarper claims to be an ex-bad boy, but his actions on and off the screen hint he hasn’t retired yet. In his first few appearances on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 5, he has already shown some red flags in his relationship with Shekinah. Recently, Sarper asked Shekinah to be a certain size and look a specific way, which matches what he said on social media. Another episode showed Shekinah defending Sarper’s rude behavior in front of her sister by claiming she thinks he’s cute when he throws a fit. It seems Sarper’s charm has blinded Shekinah, and she can’t see his misogynistic traits.
Shekinah and Sarper have an odd relationship, which seems to be one-sided. Shekinah adores him and believes he’s the one for her despite her terrible track record in relationships. Sarper appears to be all about himself in the relationship and hasn’t done anything to prove he cares about Shekinah. The new pair seems to have a superficial romance that may not last long. However, their similar clout-chasing antics hint they could stay together to capitalize on their 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way fame.